cinta dan perkahwinan…..
1 week after our 2nd anniversary, my cousin got married for the 2nd time…congratulations…!!!we pray that this marriage will last forever and may both of you blessed with many children….:)…
it has been a tough life for her (my cousin)…her 1st marriage was very much controversial…she received so many threats from her manic ex-bf prior to her wedding day, but alhamdulillah the ceremony went well…at first, they seemed very happy together…the husband was very good, hormat org tua n stuffs…but then we heard that, she got beaten by the hot-tempered husband….!!!that was cruel….!she got beaten unnecessarily over small matters….then we heard she was divorced (well, got for her to get rid of that kind of man….) she has been single again for about 1 yr plus befor she got married again last weekend….luckily they wasnt blessed with any children with the previous marriage….
then, some time last week, we heard that norman hakim and abby abadi got divorced…they just got their 2nd baby, if i’m not mistaken it should be the same age as jihan….and today, they reconciled…
susah utk tafsirkan erti cinta….when we had our brunch with someone senior last week, it was a coincidence that asrul and i shared the same drink…our senior asked me, "tak minum air ke?"…so i cakap, "kitorg kongsi je"..wah…!masih romantik…!he admitted that only the 1st 6mths of his marriage that he still holds his wife’s hand….after that dah takde dah….dah ada anak lagi laa….
well, i admit that, me n asrul still act the same way as we did in the early days of our marriage….we still hold hands together when we go out….and we still suap each other makan even though kalau kat luar pun…i still act manja2 with him and he still layan me like before….even when jihan is in between us…Hheheehhe…..
i think marriage is just not about love…but it is also about sharing….sharing everything inside out with your only spouse…!we do sometimes had some disagreement but we settled it down well….
i always pray and hope that our marriage will last forever and our love will grow deeper wach day….